Meet Dr. Fairouz Mustafa

I was born on December 10th, 1989, in the Hashemite Kingdom of Jordan, during a time of both upheaval and prosperity. It feels no coincidence that I share a birthdate with the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, as my life, from its very beginning, has been a testament to overcoming challenges and embarking on justice and healing missions. My journey has been one of moments of scarcity, followed by seasons of abundance, and through it all, I have learned the true meaning of resilience and growth.

I grew up in a conservative family, where ethics, values, and love formed the foundation of everything. My childhood is filled with dark and cherished memories of my small family, my wonderful grandpa Ali, whose unconditional love shaped much of who I am today, my compassionate grandmother, Jalaila, whose stories and kindness left an indelible mark on my heart, and my grandfather, who guided me with quiet strength to wealth and success path. I also remember the warmth of my neighbors, the playful visits of my extended family, my pets, and the simple joy of my childhood toys. These memories built the bedrock of my values and shaped my view of the world.

As an only child for the first six years of my life, I often faced feelings of loneliness, being different, discrimination, exclusion, fear, and rejection. I didn’t fully understand the emotional weight of those experiences at that time, but looking back, I realize how much they impacted my view of myself and the world. Despite these early struggles, I always found a way to see the world through a lens of authenticity, love, and beauty. This early ability to find a blessing in disguise has been my greatest gift, and it has guided me through every challenge I’ve faced.

When I began school, I quickly stood out for my independence and intellectual curiosity. I was never one to rely on others, always seeking to use my mind, heart, and free spirit to explore the world. My desire for critical thinking, self-reliance, and personal discovery was instilled in me from a young age. But alongside this independence, I learned one of my most important value— the inclusion. I came to value and love people for who they are, regardless of their race, religion, or background. This value became foundational not only in my personal life but also in the work I do today as a life coach and holistic healer.

The loss of my beloved grandpa at age eight deepened my sense of solitude, but it also left behind memories of jasmine, joy, and love. His passing was an emotional turning point that inspired me to be connected with emotions and start writing. By age ten, I had begun to compose literary texts, pouring my heart and soul into words. My essays, submitted to daily newspapers, competed with the voice of Fairouz on the school radio. When my teachers believed in my literary flame, my hands turned to books on emotional intelligence, wisdom, and human rights, which I found in a public library. 

As adolescence approached, existential questions began to weigh heavily on my mind, and I found myself grappling with trauma, anger and fear. For years, I struggled with vulnerability and poverty, often asking, "Why me, God?" Then came a defining moment. I entered the Information Technology College at one of the leading universities with a 91.8% score, and I laid out a plan, focusing solely on academic excellence. It became my path, my responsibility. I committed myself to achieving top grades, even while juggling multiple jobs, the latest of which was in training. Excellence became my standard, especially that I maintained a 95% average throughout my studies. After completing my university education, I began working at a major banking institution, marking the beginning of my structured journey into self-development and psychology. At the age of 23, a significant transformation occurred in my life that pushed me to take serious steps toward awareness. I encountered numerous professional and academic opportunities that led me deeper into this field. After years of study and work, I pursued a master’s degree at the University of Jordan, which taught me crucial life lessons that shaped my path. This phase opened many doors, including the launch of my first business. During my master’s studies, I became more aware of part of my life’s purpose, as a teacher, finishing with honors and fueling my drive to continue onward.